I am not yet married to my fiancé, but we are planning to get donor eggs for IVF. I would like to pay for this with my HSA, but am unsure if it's eligible for a man since it is for donor EGGS. If the benefit is counted towards her, since it would replace her eggs, is it still eligible to us as a couple if we are not yet married, sometimes these benefits only count toward spouses.
This article makes me think it would not be eligible
https://hsastore.com/hsa-eligibility-list/e/egg-donor-fees
Thanks