I am happy to answer your question. Your situation is not uncommon and congratulations on being pro-active in addressing the issue of the advanced child tax credit payments for people with shared / alternating custody of a child.
The advanced child tax credit is issued based on the prior year tax return. Since you claimed the child in 2020 the IRS automatically enrolled you to receive the advanced payment for this year.
Since you will not be claiming you son in 2021, you will be required to repay the amount of the advanced tax credit payment received when you file as single this year. I suggest you unenroll from receiving the advanced payment to minimize the impact on your 2021 tax return. The website link on how to update your information and stop the advanced payments is listed below.
https://www.irs.gov/credits-deductions/child-tax-credit-update-portal
Kind regards,
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