Since you have similar incomes both of you should check the step 2(c) box on your respective forms W4. Next only the W4 for the highest paying job need complete steps 3-4b. Also, you can click here for a calculator to figure if you want an amount in step 4(c) for a higher refund with lower paychecks.
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