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If I claim my daughter even though her mom won't let me. Neither one of us have full custody?

I was the one claiming my daughter but now since her mother and I are not together she won't let me claim her anymore and I help her out with expenses. An neither of us have full custody but she lives with her
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If I claim my daughter even though her mom won't let me. Neither one of us have full custody?

Have you been separated more than the last 6 months of 2016?

Did either (or both) parents live with the child more than half of 2016?
**Disclaimer: This post is for discussion purposes only and is NOT tax advice. The author takes no responsibility for the accuracy of any information in this post.**

If I claim my daughter even though her mom won't let me. Neither one of us have full custody?

We been separated for 3 years and my daughter lives with her mother. I been in their life since they were born but their mother sometimes won't let me spend time with them
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If I claim my daughter even though her mom won't let me. Neither one of us have full custody?

How does the mother not have custody if you say she lives with the mother?

If I claim my daughter even though her mom won't let me. Neither one of us have full custody?

Because there's no court paper saying that she has full custody so that gives me the same rights as her to have my daughters. I know she can't denied me my girls from staying with me. I had a police officer tell me that if I wanted him to go with me to get my girls but I told him no because I didn't want my girls to get scare

If I claim my daughter even though her mom won't let me. Neither one of us have full custody?

Tax "custody" has nothing to do with legal custody that a court might order.   Tax custody is determined who the child physically lived with more than 183 (or greater) nights in the year - see answer below.
**Disclaimer: This post is for discussion purposes only and is NOT tax advice. The author takes no responsibility for the accuracy of any information in this post.**

If I claim my daughter even though her mom won't let me. Neither one of us have full custody?

I guess she knew how to screw me by not letting me have my girls stay with me and not accepting the help I was offering her she made it seem like I'm not in my daughters life or don't provide for them

If I claim my daughter even though her mom won't let me. Neither one of us have full custody?

Custodial Parent
These are a paraphrase of the IRS rules for divorced or separated parents that live apart.

See “Children of divorced or separated parents or parents who live apart” in IRS Pub 17 for full information.

https://www.irs.gov/publications/p17/ch03.html#en_US_2016_publink1000170897

This assumes that the child is under age 18 (in most states).  Once the child becomes an adult (Emancipated child), custody becomes mute and these rules no longer apply.(See examples 5 & 6 in Pub 17 for more information)

There is no such thing in the Federal tax law as 50/50, split, or joint custody. The IRS only recognizes physical custody (which parent the child lived with the greater part, but over half, of the tax year. That parent is the custodial parent; the other parent is the noncustodial parent.)

Who can claim the exemption and credits depends on who is the custodial parent. (By the IRS definition of custodial parent for tax purposes - this is not the same as the custody that a court might grant.).

The test that the IRS uses to determine the custodial parent is where the child lived for more than 1/2 (or greater part) of the year. The IRS will go so far as to require counting the nights spend in each household - that person is the custodial parent for tax purposes (if exactly equal and more than 183 days - The custodial parent is the parent with the highest AGI, if less than 183 days then neither parent has custody). And yes they are that picky.

See Custodial parent and noncustodial parent  under the residency test in Pub 17

https://www.irs.gov/publications/p17/ch03.html#en_US_2016_publink1000170897

Only the Custodial parent can claim: (Child would be listed as non-dependent EIC & CC only)
-Head of Household
-Earned Income Credit
-Child Care Credit

The non custodial parent can only claim: (Child would be listed as dependent)
-The Exemption
-The Child Tax Credit

But only if specifically specified in a pre-2009 divorce decree, separation agreement or the custodial spouse releases the exemption with a signed 8332 form - after 2009 the IRS only accepts a signed 8332 form that must be attached to the non-custodial parents tax return.

Note. If you are filing your return electronically, you must file Form 8332 with Form 8453, (U.S. Individual Income Tax Transmittal) for an IRS e-file Return. See Form 8453 and its instructions for more details. This must be done within 3 days of your e-filed return being accepted by the IRS.

This does NOT mean that the custodial parent can ignore any Decree or court order allowing the non-custodial parent to claim the exemption - they can be required to issue the 8332 form. They could be required by the court to do so or be in contempt.


**Disclaimer: This post is for discussion purposes only and is NOT tax advice. The author takes no responsibility for the accuracy of any information in this post.**

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