Many babysitters are uncomfortable with the idea of giving out their Social Security number, and may need to understand that they can get a Tax ID to use instead.
https://www.irs.gov/individuals/international-taxpayers/taxpayer-identification-numbers-tin
https://www.irs.gov/businesses/small-businesses-self-employed/how-to-apply-for-an-ein
When a childcare provider will not give you a SSN or Tax ID
If they still refuse to provide an EIN or SSN, send your provider a W-10 (Request for Taxpayer Information and Identification Number). You can get a copy of the W-10 by clicking here: W-10 Form & Instructions Complete as much of the form as you can and send it via certified mail (after making copies for yourself).
If the provider does not respond within 10 business days, you can still file your return. However, you won't be able to e-file. Print and mail in your return, along with an explanation and a copy of the W-10 you sent your provider.
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