Your child's other parent will not be able to e-file a 2018 return since you already used the child's SSN on your own return. It takes so long for an amended return to be processed that e-filing will be impossible for her; but she can print, sign and mail the return that claims the child and it should be fine. Your tax owed does not affect her refund.
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