If you cannot e-file then nothing went to the IRS and the IRS does not have your information for a direct debit. When you have the SSN problem caused by a dependent who did not answer correctly in MY INFO, you have two options. You do not need to wait for her to amend for either option.
Print, sign, and mail your return.
Or get an IP PIN for her and try to e-file.
GET IP pin in order to e-file if your dependent’s SSN was claimed on another return
https://www.irs.gov/newsroom/irs-takes-steps-to-help-prevent-refund-delays-by-accepting-duplicate-de...
https://www.irs.gov/identity-theft-fraud-scams/get-an-identity-protection-pin
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