Yes, wait until the original has processed (but if there is tax due, don't pay the tax late, which would be after April 15, 2025)
No, since you must have included your mother's social security number on the return you filed for your father, filing a Married Filing Separate return will also get rejected. Her social security number has been filed (with your father's return)
It's possible that the IRS will correct the return you filed and add your mother's W-2, in which case they will send a letter asking if you agree with the correction.
If not, and they process your father's return, you'll need to then file an amended return.
HERE is a link with more information about amending a return using TurboTax.
**Say "Thanks" by clicking the thumb icon in a post
**Mark the post that answers your question by clicking on "Mark as Best Answer"