The employer's HR person states that they have talked with their insurance broker, and he said the they fall under a"transition" option due to the affordable health care act. I checked that out and it appears that what they were talking about only dealt with box 12 and the code DD. It stated that some HSA contributions have to be entered on w2 box 12 with a Code W, and to check out the HSA section
I have done all of that, read the 8889 instructions, emailed her my findings, and she has forwarded my email to their insurance broker. I am awaiting an answer from them tomorrow.
To reiterate, her total gross income in box 1 does not include her HSA contributions, nor her 125 cafeteria insurance costs, nor her deferred 403b retirement contributions. Her social security wages, and medicare wages, in boxes 3 and 5 does include her 403b contributions but not HSA or insurance costs.
The only thing in box 12 is Code E elected retirement plan contributions.
I have basically been reading most of the day about this on IRS, and have seen answers that conflict one another. I guess I will wait for her insurance brokers response, unless someone else can explain it to me.