So sorry---you are very generous and kind. But you cannot deduct anything for the childcare, since you did not pay it so that YOU could work and do not seem to claiming the children as dependents on your own tax return. You are giving a generous gift to their father, but gifts are not deductible. Only the custodial parent can claim the childcare credit.
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