NY won't accept W2 from NJ because of Box 14

[BrooklynCarol]

I live in NY. I work in NJ. 

My New Jersey W-2 has the FLI and UI/WF/SWF in some of the state boxes (17 & 19) where they don't belong.

One of the other posts said to move these items to Box 14 Other where my retirement 414H is.

I did that and now my New York return can't be filed electronically.

What should I do to fix this so both states accept their returns?

Or can I leave these 2 items off the W2?