IF you are the military person, and she did not "physically" establish residency in NC after you married....then she became a CA resident when she moved to CA...and she moved from CO on that date.....and every time you go to a new post, she must become a resident of that state. (I think WV was an exception, but not worth worrying about unless you get posted to WV)
Read:
https://ttlc.intuit.com/questions/1901516-military-spouses-and-state-taxes
____________*Answers are correct to the best of my knowledge when posted, but should not be considered to be legal or official tax advice.*