I would try to reach out to your ex and let them know you need information from the 1095-A for your tax return since the kids were covered for 3 months.
If the IRS told you to write a statement explaining the situation and you are unable to get the 1095-A from your ex, I would do that ASAP and send it in so there is not a further delay of your refund.
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