You can't stop the transmitting of the return even when it shows as pending.
Did you claim too much or too little?
If you claimed too much, you'll need to file an amended state return or maybe you can work out something with your ex and have him/her claim the difference so the total amount claimed by you both is not over the tax claimed on your joint 2020 return.
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