You can't keep someone else from filing and using your son's SSN. You should just file your return in the normal manner, claiming your son. If the IRS receives two returns, each claiming the same SSN, their computers will reject the second return they receive. If that happens to you, just resubmit your return by printing and mailing it, and the IRS will request further information, and they will determine who has the rightful claim.
**Answers are correct to the best of my ability but do not constitute tax or legal advice.