Weird story, my ex filed 2018 taxes and never told me about it, took the money and ran, havent seen her in many years. I had a 1099 from eBAY and no write offs were done so they are saying I owe $20k. They are letting me amend the 2018 taxes, however, I dont have my ex-wifes SSN, how am I supposed to amend my taxes? She originally filed the return joint, married. Can I amend it married filing separate so I dont have to put her info on there? or put all zeros in for her SSN? Im out of ideas.