Q: "Do we file MFJ for CA and I file MFS for DC?"
A: Yes, that is exactly what you do. If you file a joint federal return, you must file your CA return as MFJ, using CA Form 540NR. the California form for non-residents or part-year residents.
You should file your DC return as MFS. Your non-resident spouse is not required to file,
**Answers are correct to the best of my ability but do not constitute tax or legal advice.