How or what can I do to lower my debts?

[Miishelotg]

Having a lot of debts is so stressful especially when you a single mother, while living with my child's dad he got a stupid vacuum, honestly I didn't paid attention because I was busy with my son  so he got a $3000 vacuum with my signature on it  and within a week he took the vacuum  and give it to his girlfriend while he was leaving with me. Ok now moving forward to this year 2021. While I was at work my mom told me a sheriff came to look for me  and gave her some paperwork saying that I had court last year, I never received anything letter according to this  and now the vacuum it's more then $5000.

when I was living with my child's dad he got me a lot of debts  what can I do in this case?

[Wadeeli]

If you signed for the vacuum, it's your vacuum, sweetie. You're responsible, and if it means you're done with that louse of a husband, you're getting off cheap.

Little kids, eh? Ever think of having their friends stay with you as an informal day-care center? It won't bring in much, but there are many at-home employments available if you cannot get out.

Don't blame it all on him. Don't blame it all on yourself, either. Neither process reduces your vacuum debt by a penny. Work on solutions, and let his girlfriend keep the vacuum and the person who brought it over.