Got return rejected...accidentally did an amendment but it is incorrect because it is based off a return that was never excepted. How do I start over. Already paid 4 it

I accidentally claimed myself and my refund (fed/state) got rejected because my mom claimed me (correctly). Instead of just updating my info and resubmitting I thought I needed to do an amendment. Not my amendment numbers are wrong because they appear to be based off the numbers of my original return even though It was never accepted. I tried going to my tools and clicking start over but it says I cant since I already filed and started over. I don't want to lose all the money I spent to file and start a new login/account. I am frustrated because if my return was rejected and it clearly shows that why would I be allowed to even start an amendment....anyone know an answer..I talked to someone at TT and they werent any help. ...sincerely, confused college student

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