My oldest is a legal adult & I have had legal sole custody of our youngest (16 yrs old) for the last 3 years. I collect no child support money from her.

...Also, been separated for the last 6 years, trying to get divorced. She will not divorce me, but my lawyer should have me divorced very soon. She hasn't lived...

I don't now here. I rent a home, so I do not know if that qualifies me for upkeep of the home.