When will the money I owe turbo tax come out of my account? What if the money from IRS doesn't go to my account in time for the money to come out for turbo tax?

Then you need to have enough in the account for Turbo Tax to take it.
See What if the IRS reduces your refund or delays it.
https://ttlc.intuit.com/questions/2552376-what-if-my-federal-refund-isn-t-enough-to-cover-my-turbotax-fees  

Then when the IRS does send your refund they won't take the fees out again.

And, Why you got charged,
https://ttlc.intuit.com/replies/3302146

You should have received 4 emails asking for the fees.  If you don't pay they will debit your account.  You had to agree to it.