My refund has already been accepted and set up for direct deposit can I change that to the card so my soon to be ex husband doesn’t steal it like he says he is

I'm afraid not. Once it has been accepted you cannot change it. 

Personally I'd talk to you bank about what options you have. 

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Unfortunately, once you e-file, it's too late to change your refund method. You will have to contact the IRS.

How do I contact the Internal Revenue Service (IRS)? https://ttlc.intuit.com/replies/3301592

Re: Hey my refund has be accepted and I had a date of the 23rd and nothing came. Now it’s saying Check with my tax preparer

@Deannan25 

If it has been more than 21 days since your return was accepted, please follow the steps in the link below:

https://ttlc.intuit.com/questions/1901303-what-if-my-irs-refund-is-taking-longer-than-21-days