Tom K is correct, the employer EIN and your SS number are generally more important than names on the W-2.
As for the delay in your federal refund, we have no information on your refund. There are a number of things that can slow up your refund - the credits you asked for, whether or not the direct deposit information was correct, whether or not you e-filed the return, the phase of the moon, and so on.
I assume you have heard about Where's My Refund, the IRS website that let's you track your refund.