She is the custodial parent, he is your step-son/son on the tax return, so unless your wife is planning to waive the exemption to his father you would answer the questions like you are his father and the Form 8332 will not apply.
If you are planning to release or waive the exemption so that the father can claim the child, then this form should printed out, completed and signed by the custodial parent and given to the noncustodial parent so that they can claim the child's exemption.
She is the custodial parent, he is your step-son/son on the tax return, so unless your wife is planning to waive the exemption to his father you would answer the questions like you are his father and the Form 8332 will not apply.
If you are planning to release or waive the exemption so that the father can claim the child, then this form should printed out, completed and signed by the custodial parent and given to the noncustodial parent so that they can claim the child's exemption.