My name is listed first but i want to change it and file with my husbands name first

Please read this answer from TurboTax DianeW which addresses your question:

https://ttlc.intuit.com/replies/6853569

ORDER OF NAMES ON A JOINT RETURN  https://ttlc.intuit.com/questions/1901551-does-the-order-of-the-names-on-a-joint-return-matter