My federal return needed to be verified. Which I did, now I cant see when it's coming. And I can't get ahold of anyone! So frustrated. How do I call someone?

If your return has been accepted by the IRS, you will need to constantly check Where's My Refund regarding the status of your return.  If there is no information yet posted in the link, you will need to check it constantly until information does appear. 

If you were required to verify your identity and you completed the identity verification process with the IRS  then it will be at least 9 weeks before the refund is issued.

You can check the status of the federal tax refund on this IRS website - https://www.irs.gov/refunds