If I stopped using the bank my return was suppose to go to how do I get my return???

So if the refund is returned to the irs then it’s will send a paper check to your account listed on your return , hopefully your address is good and has not changed . 

If your address is not correct on your tax return or has changed since you filed it, use this link to access the IRS change of address form and complete it and send it to the IRS: http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/f8822.pdf