I received a suspicious email from Turbotax with a return email: "no-reply@em3.turbotax.intuit.ca and there was another "Reply-To: no-reply@abmarketing01.com" is this ok?

It may be or may not be. Please read "Avoid phishing scams and spoofed sites" before clicking on any link on that email.

Thanks Bill - it still doesn't answer my specific question. I am already trying to avoid phishing by posting two suspicious reply links that I was hoping Turbotax could say "nope, not ours" or "yes, that's us"

Well, the first link you posted appears to be from TurboTax Canada.  This is the TurboTax US user community forum.  The second link is unknown.

Are you completing a Canadian tax return?

Go to this TurboTax Canada website for assistance with a Canadian tax return or the TurboTax Canada editions - https://turbotax.community.intuit.ca/turbotax-support/en-ca

Yes, I'll be completing a Canadian tax return which had  the reply address as: "[email address removed]" ...abmarketing01 seems suspicious and, now that you point it out, it seems to be coming from a .com (US) address rather than a .ca(Canada) address which is where I'm working from