I believe that Turbo tax is calculating me as a single person BUT I have 2 dependents and I'm HOH
the answer below did not answer my question - I stetted that I already double checked everything. I have it correct. your software is wrong
The determination of whether you over funded the HSA is not based on your filing status, but is based on whether you marked that you had a family HDHP (high deductible health plan) for the full year. Go back to the Medical section of TurboTax related to your HSA entry and continue through the screens until you are asked about contributions and then a screen where you are asked if you were covered by a HDHP, and then what type of HDHP. Make sure that the Family Plan option is marked. See a sample screenshot below:
Below are steps to be brought back to the HSA entry section of TurboTax:
as stated I checked that and I have everything entered correctly and I stated this in my original question.
your software is wrong