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posted Jun 4, 2019 6:35:28 PM

Can my spouse file as head of household so I can file married filling separately?

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Level 15
Jun 4, 2019 6:35:30 PM

Why do you want to file separate?  Joint is usually the best way to file.  You lose several credits filing MFS.  Do you live together?

New Member
Jun 4, 2019 6:35:31 PM

We do not live together but we are still legally married

Expert Alumni
Jun 4, 2019 6:35:32 PM

It's legal to file that way if you do live separate and your spouse has a dependent.  You can also file joint if you choose as long as you are not legally separated.

Expert Alumni
Jun 4, 2019 6:35:34 PM

It depends.  This is a legal status only if you were living apart for more than the last 6 months of the year, your spouse has a qualifying dependent living with him/her for at least 6 months of the year, and provided at least half of the household support. However, if you did not live apart for the entire last 6 months of the year, this type of filing would be illegal and fraudulent.  Here is an FAQ with additional information on filing Head of Household:  https://ttlc.intuit.com/replies/4206137

New Member
Apr 29, 2020 5:41:16 AM

I have a question about filing separately and filing jointly. If my wife filed separately already on her tax return, would I be able to file my tax return jointly? So I can qualify for all the tax benefits such as education etc.

Level 15
Apr 29, 2020 5:44:56 AM


@Longmorw wrote:

I have a question about filing separately and filing jointly. If my wife filed separately already on her tax return, would I be able to file my tax return jointly? So I can qualify for all the tax benefits such as education etc.


No, you cannot file a joint tax return if your spouse filed as Married Filing Separately.  You can only file your tax return as Married Filing Separately or if you are eligible as Head of Household.

See this TurboTax support FAQ for Head of Household when married - https://ttlc.intuit.com/community/married/help/can-a-married-person-claim-head-of-household-filing-status/01/26366

New Member
Sep 10, 2020 11:36:36 AM

So if one spouse does qualify for Head of Household what filing status does the other spouse use? Would they use Married Filing Separately? Or could they use Head of Household also?

Level 15
Sep 10, 2020 12:56:39 PM


@bz_92 wrote:

So if one spouse does qualify for Head of Household what filing status does the other spouse use? Would they use Married Filing Separately? Or could they use Head of Household also?


If you are married, you can only use head of household if all these conditions are true:

  1. you lived apart from your spouse for all of the last 6 months of the year,
  2. you paid more than half the cost of keeping up your own home for the entire year,
  3. you provided care in your home for a qualifying person, usually your child dependent who lived in your home with you more than half the nights of the year.

 

The same rules apply to both spouses.  Spouse #2 might also qualify to file as HOH if they meet the same tests.  (This means that, among other things, the spouses must have at least two children, and at least one of the children lived with spouse #2 more than half the year while another child lived with spouse #1 more than half the year.)  It is unusual, but not impossible, for this to be the case. 

 

If spouse #2 does not qualify to file as HOH, then spouse #2 must file as married filing separately.  

Returning Member
May 18, 2021 1:03:24 PM

What happens in a community property state when one spouse files Head of Household? (yes, verified they are eligible to do so) When both filing married filing separately we are required to input half of each of our incomes on both returns. When filing head of household it doesn't ask for spouses income. So how does the other spouse file? and how do they report the income?

Expert Alumni
May 18, 2021 1:25:22 PM

It depends. If you are both living together and married, Head of Household filing is not permitted.  You both need to file married filing separately to split half the income. Please refer to this IRS publication for more information.

 

Considered Unmarried

To qualify for head of household status, you must be either unmarried or considered unmarried on the last day of the year. You are considered unmarried on the last day of the tax year if you meet all the following tests.

  1. You file a separate return. A separate return includes a return claiming married filing separately, single, or head of household filing status.

  2. You paid more than half the cost of keeping up your home for the tax year.

  3. Your spouse didn't live in your home during the last 6 months of the tax year. Your spouse is considered to live in your home even if he or she is temporarily absent due to special circumstances. See Temporary absences , later.

  4. Your home was the main home of your child, stepchild, or foster child for more than half the year. (See Home of qualifying person , later, for rules applying to a child's birth, death, or temporary absence during the year.)

  5. You must be able to claim the child as a dependent. However, you meet this test if you can't claim the child as a dependent only because the noncustodial parent can claim the child using the rules described, later, in Children of divorced or separated parents (or parents who live apart) under Qualifying Child or in Support Test for Children of Divorced or Separated Parents (or Parents Who Live Apart) under Qualifying Relative. The general rules for claiming a child as a dependent are explained, later, under Dependents .

Returning Member
May 18, 2021 1:27:39 PM

living apart for over 2 years and have a dependent. 

Level 15
May 18, 2021 4:12:46 PM


@peterpumpkineater wrote:

living apart for over 2 years and have a dependent. 


This is a complicated area and I don't think any of us are experts.  You should start by reading IRS publication 555.

https://www.irs.gov/publications/p555#en_US_202001_publink1000168814

 

The situation is governed by state law.  If you have community property or community income even though you are separated, you must still divide it according to state law.

 

A marriage can have both community income and separate income.  For example, investments you own before you get married might be separate income and only reported on your MFS return, while income from your job during the marriage is part of the marital community and is divided equally even if one spouse doesn't work.  

 

The question you need to ask of your state laws is "when does the marital community end?"  If the marital community ends on separation, then your income is no longer community income.  For example, if you separated on July 1, 2019, then you might have community income before that date and separate income after that date.  Then for 2020, all your income would be separate income.

 

But if your state has different rules on when the marital community ends, or if some of your joint property is still considered community property even when you are separated, then you have to follow those state laws.  Again for example, suppose you and your spouse own a rental building together.  Even though you are separated and your job is now considered "Separate income", the income from the rental may still be "community income". It all depends on your state laws. 

 

You may need the help of a tax preparer in your state. 

Level 15
May 18, 2021 4:14:05 PM


@peterpumpkineater wrote:

living apart for over 2 years and have a dependent. 


At the federal level, you can file as head of household.  But what income you report as "your income" on the HOH return may be complicated, as I indicate in my other reply. 

New Member
Jan 22, 2022 11:24:23 AM

Married living in 2 different states for more than a year.  Dependants live with me. She has a job and student loans interest but we don't talk so she's not going to give me numbers.  Turbo tax is telling me to file HOH but what does she file?.   

Level 15
Jan 22, 2022 11:28:03 AM

She files married filing separately.     And if you are filing HOH you do not have to enter anything about her on your own return----so what she does is in the category of not your problem.

Level 15
Jan 23, 2022 7:51:21 AM


@natestaff26 wrote:

Married living in 2 different states for more than a year.  Dependants live with me. She has a job and student loans interest but we don't talk so she's not going to give me numbers.  Turbo tax is telling me to file HOH but what does she file?.   


In general, if you lived apart, and you have custody of at least one qualifying dependent, you can file as head of household.  You don't need to provide any information about your spouse.  As you are legally married, and if your spouse does not have a qualifying person to claim for HOH status, they would file as married filing separately. 

 

If you were married in a community property state, however, professional advice might be recommended.  There are some tricky aspects to filing separate returns when you have community property (including the question of whether you have community income after your separation, which depends on state law).

Employee Tax Expert
Feb 8, 2022 8:32:00 AM

If a married but separated couple aren't living together, one spouse filing Head of Household (meets criteria), TurboTax is asking (insisting) she provide estranged spouse's name, SS# and, and birthday - info she hasn't retained.  Is this necessary?  TT won't get past error check without the info. 

Level 15
Feb 8, 2022 8:41:36 AM


@fflores3 wrote:

If a married but separated couple aren't living together, one spouse filing Head of Household (meets criteria), TurboTax is asking (insisting) she provide estranged spouse's name, SS# and, and birthday - info she hasn't retained.  Is this necessary?  TT won't get past error check without the info. 


Go back to the personal interview and check again.  Turbotax should not ask for the name and SSN of the spouse if you are filing HOH.  The IRS does not require it.  You might be listed as MFS by mistake. 

New Member
Jul 20, 2022 12:50:55 PM

We recently got married. We were both Head of Household. Do we change the W4 to married for both of us or just the highest earner? He makes $100k and I make $70k. I don’t want us to have a huge tax bill next year, but I also don’t want our take -home pay to decrease radically.

Level 15
Jul 20, 2022 1:06:12 PM


@Allysonspielman  wrote:

We recently got married. We were both Head of Household. Do we change the W4 to married for both of us or just the highest earner? He makes $100k and I make $70k. I don’t want us to have a huge tax bill next year, but I also don’t want our take -home pay to decrease radically.


If you are legally married and living together at any time in the last six months of the year, you can only file your tax return as either Married Filing Jointly or Married Filing Separately.

Use this IRS website for the W-4 withholding estimator - https://www.irs.gov/individuals/tax-withholding-estimator

Level 15
Jul 20, 2022 1:39:59 PM


@Allysonspielman  wrote:

We recently got married. We were both Head of Household. Do we change the W4 to married for both of us or just the highest earner? He makes $100k and I make $70k. I don’t want us to have a huge tax bill next year, but I also don’t want our take -home pay to decrease radically.


Use the IRS web site, or get the W-4 and use all the instructions and worksheets.  You will both need to file new W-4s, but you do the calculation once and apply that answer to both new forms.

 

Because you will file married for the entire year, but were withheld as HOH for the beginning of the year, you were likely under-withheld for the first part of the year, since the taxes for two parents each filing HOH will be slightly lower than a couple filing MFJ.  Also, you may have gotten the enhanced child tax credit or enhanced dependent care credit in 2021 that is going back to normal for 2022.   If you use the IRS web site to determine your withholding for the rest of 2022, you will want to run it again at the beginning of 2023 to reset your withholding. 

New Member
Apr 20, 2024 8:56:44 PM

Can one spouse claim married filing separate and the other file head of household 

Level 15
Apr 21, 2024 12:29:25 AM

You should have started your own thread!!!! However, to answer your question, the answer is yes. If the one wanting to file as HOH has lived apart from their spouse for the last six months of a calendar year and paid more than 1/2 the cost of keeping up a home for themself and his/her child who lived with the taxpayer for more than six months during that calendar year. 

 

six months means the child spent 183 or more nights with the taxpayer

 

there are other conditions to file as HOH

1) child can not be claimable solely because of multiple support agreement

2) taxpayer can not be a nonresident alien any time during the year

3) child can not be married and filing jointly with their spouse unless there is no tax liability and merely filing jointly to facilitate a refund of taxes withheld or paid estimates. 

 

 

 

Level 15
Apr 21, 2024 5:28:29 PM

"Can one spouse claim married filing separate and the other file head of household "

 

Yes, but ONLY if the spouses have lived apart for the entire last 6 months of the year (from July 1 to the end of the year).   If you live together for even one day during that time, your choices are limited to married filing jointly, or married filing separately.

 

Head of household is only really intended for single parents, meaning you are unmarried, or have a long-term separation from your spouse.  HOH does not mean "head of the family."