how do i tell if my state taxes are paid through turbo tax

Taxes owed are not paid through TurboTax.

In the File section of the program on Step 2 when taxes are owed you were given several options on how to pay the taxes owed.  What did you choose?

Check the printout or PDF of your return; look for the state cover sheet with the Turbotax logo.  If you owed tax, it will show the payment information and how/when you decided to pay.  Read the state payment instructions carefully since most states cannot be paid from within the TT system and requires additional steps.

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Oh, and you can't have a state tax due deducted from your federal refund.  Never.  You can only have the Turbo Tax fees deducted from your refund.