I've already submitted my return in turbo tax with all the correct into (indicated an over contribution). I do not see the penalty itemized on my return... so I am not confident that the taxes I own (per turbo) includes the penalty. How do I know?
You don't get a penalty calculated on an excess deferral (this applies to IRA excess contributions). But if you do not take out the excess amount by April 15th (note this is different from the tax due date), then you are taxed twice on the excess deferral left in the plan. This happens once when you contribute it (with the steps below) and again when you receive it as a distribution. You can't include the excess amount in the cost of the contract even though you included it in your income.
To confirm, you added the excess deferral on your 2022 tax return with these steps (this will show up on line 1h):
Please see Pub 525 for additional information.
Since you missed the deadline to withdraw the excess deferral, you might want to check with your plan if you can leave the excess in the plan until you are 59 1/2 to avoid the 10% early withdrawal penalty.