I am military. My wife is not. I selected the "is your spouse military" option on her personal info. It now is making me say what her military status is.

You'll need to return to the Personal Info section to change the selection for your wife. Here is how:

1. Select the Personal Info tab
2. Select Edit next to her name
3. Under question 1. be sure that you selected No to "My spouse is a member or former member of the U.S. Armed Forces (active, reserve or National Guard)." 

I've attached a screenshot for reference.