You can claim the deduction if all of the following apply:
Here's how to enter your student loan interest. Follow these instructions whether or not you received a 1098-E from your lender:
Simple answer: only if you co-signed the loan (making you legally obligated).
You son may still be able to take the deduction, even though you paid it, under the theory that you paying the expense is just a gift to him, and it was really his money (there was a "donative intent").