I can't file my 1040 because Schedule H atomically fills in my name and my wife filed for the Employer Identification number. Also, she uses her maiden name. When I try to override using her name, it will not let me file the return.
We are paying the employment tax with our return, so if I eliminate Schule H, nothing will match.
Based on previous comments, it looks like the only logical solution is to file by mail.