Why is turbotax saying their going to take money from my bank account around april 3rd does that mean the irs is sending my refund that day as well

Please provide more details as to what you mean by "turbo tax is going to take money" from my account. How did you opt to pay for your filing fees?

No it doesn't mean the IRS will send your refund that day.

Sounds like the IRS is taking too long to send your refund or reduced it. See What if the IRS reduces your refund or delays it.
https://ttlc.intuit.com/community/payments/help/what-if-my-federal-refund-isn-t-enough-to-cover-my-turbotax-fees/00/26313

Then when the IRS does send your refund they won't take the fees out again.

And, Why you got charged,
https://ttlc.intuit.com/community/charges-and-fees/help/why-was-my-bank-account-auto-debited-for-turbotax-fees/00/26102

You should have received about 4 emails asking for the fees. If you don't pay they will debit your account. You had to agree to it.