Turbo tax says my NJ state tax was "accepted", but when I check the NJ state refund status page, it says it has no information on my SS number!! Can anyone explain this?"

NJ often does not update until they actually start processing your return.

The Division will begin releasing 2017 refunds on March 1, 2018.  Electronically filed returns generally take four weeks or more to process and validate.

Per NJ, you should only use the Online Refund Status Service if you filed your return at least 4 weeks ago (electronically) or 12 weeks ago (paper). https://www16.state.nj.us/TYTR_TGI_INQ/servlet/COMMON/prompt