Should I amend my federal tax refund to include my stock option losses for the year of 2024?

I think you mean you were up $8,000 on your investment but failed to close the transaction in time to realize your gains. If so, you can't deduct a loss since it was not realized. You can only deduct the amount of money you invested if you lost that permanently.

Realized losses should be reported as shown on consolidated 1099-B from broker. If your options expired the broker will report that also.