State taxes sometimes typically take longer. This is normal. Included for your reassurance is information on state pending status.
https://ttlc.intuit.com/replies/3302294
I'm in the same boat. i even have a DD date for my federal return. my NM return is still pending.
ditto +1 - seems the 3rd world NM TRD is dragging feet again
NM finally updated to accepted for me today!