My state tax says I have to put a residency end date. We have lived here since 2019. I have tried to put yesterday’s date, 1-1-2025, 12-31-2024 So far no luck

Did you (even accidentally) enter something about moving in 2024 when you entered information into MY INFO?   If your state is asking for dates you lived there....remember that you are working on a 2024 tax return.  The state is not asking for your entire history of living in the state. It is asking for the dates you lived there in 2024.