My refund isn't in my account yet. The IRS says it was sent on the 22nd. I have no idea where it is. My bank has no sign of it even being attempted to be put into account

Once the IRS has accepted your return, TurboTax is not involved in Refund Processing.  

Please check the refund status at the IRS:  Where is my Refund

Also, I suggest creating an online account at IRS so that you can see all activity relating to your tax return.  IRS Online Account