It’s now the 19th and WMR still doesn’t have bars and says it’s been received and is being processed. I feel like everyone else has dates the refund will be deposited!

Your return was accepted, that's great!!   Now it says processing, and that simply means that the IRS is working on it, they're reviewing the return.  Here is more information:

https://ttlc.intuit.com/replies/4689484