If my refund was accepted, how come when i check my refund on the where is my refund status for my state return it saying nothing matches what I’m putting i . Was the return accepted?

As long as you received a message indicating that your return was accepted, you're fine. You generally won't see any information regarding your refund on the tracker until your return starts to process, which can take some time depending on the volume of returns the IRS has waiting to be processed.