Does . why do I have to wait 10 weeks for my refund its been 21 days today I called the irs and she said I had to wait 10 weeks she said there was no note on my return I

TT does not know. Once your return has been filed and accepted, the IRS gives TT no further information.  But perhaps your return was pulled for a human to review it for some reason.  You might consider changing your tax withholding so that you do not have to go through again next year.

Another user just posted this from his/her conversation with the IRS:

If you are filing and included that you didn't receive the stimulus payments last year, they're taking extra time to verify. The woman at the IRS said that they're estimating it could take up to 10 weeks to verify and get the tax return to those who filed for the rebate.