Can I get a answer, I filed my amend 4 months ago witch is 16 weeks i should received it by now and I haven’t and it doesn’t show up on my tax return either anymore

Did you check here?

https://www.irs.gov/filing/wheres-my-amended-return

Do not expect quick results from amending. It can take four months or more for the IRS to process an amended return.  

You can watch for information here:

https://www.irs.gov/Filing/Individuals/Amended-Returns-(Form-1040-X)/Wheres-My-Amended-Return-1

Did you efile it, or did you file a paper amended return by mail?   If the latter, then because of their backlog with paper-filed returns, the IRS is currently processing paper amended returns that were filed in March, according to the processing status page below:

https://www.irs.gov/help/processing-status-for-tax-forms