Bank of america routing : it seems that the routing number i should have used is the for "paper and electronic" , however i used the one for wires to file for my taxes.

You'll need to ask your bank about whether it will still make it to you or not. 

If not, the IRS will issue a refund check and mail it to the address on the tax return.  That can add an extra week or two of wait time for your refund to arrive.