Retirement tax questions

If you have over $4,150 income (for 2018  I think it's 4,200 for 2019) THEN nobody can claim you as a dependent.  When you file your own return you will claim yourself.  They can not claim you.  

 

And by the way, if you are under 59 1/2 there is a 10% Early Withdrawal Penalty on 401K and IRA withdrawals.