Retirement tax questions

No.   You are not exempt from the 10% early withdrawal penalty when you take money out of a 401k.  That only works for a traditional IRA.   When you take money out of a 401k for a down payment you are subject to not only the ordinary income tax but the 10% early withdrawal penalty.  You misunderstood the rules.

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