Multimember LLC- Rental Investing Passive or Active?

First question- Because I'm manager for this LLC who makes all the decision, should I select actively involved in Form 1065? But below screen shot for this question tells all rental activities are passive. I am not real estate  professional.

 

Second question- my wife who is another member (not the manager) who also helps me with finding tenants, should I select actively involved in Form 1065?

 

Third question- Because it this LLC is pass thorugh entity, I pay taxes through personal return. While filling the personal return, Form 8582 also asks Rental Real Estate Activities With Active Participation. Should I answer this question as YES only if it is active participation  is selected in Form 1065?

 

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