It sounds to me like you've been working under the table for all these years through some combination of cash in hand and having certain "personal" expenses being picked up by the company as part of your "income."
It certainly sounds like the company has possibly been operating in an illegal fashion and, if you haven't been preparing income tax returns, you might have been too.
You've made a series of statements, some of which are ambiguous and difficult to follow, but you've asked no questions. What, exactly, did you hope to achieve with this post?
